I’m going to play a little blackmail extraction game with you today. Each round has one piece of personal information at stake.   Get out your deck of cards and shuffle. We pull a card at the same time…if you have the low card, you reveal. If you have the high card, you sit this round out. This game can be played multiple times, until I have every little detail I desire.   The stakes grow higher with each game, but your wins reassure you. You haven’t told me everything. You’ve won a few, so it’s ok to indulge me when I have the winning card. You’re so caught up in the game, in the thrill, that it’s easy to lose yourself.